Hi guys,
Today I’m going to cover another important fact that most men don’t understand.
Us men simply think differently than women and we judge situations in a different way. Knowing how women judge events or ‘keep score’ as I like to call it plays a critical part in your relationship.
Both men and women ‘keep score’ subconsciously.
Remember that one time your wife did something great for you? I bet she scored well for you…
Women keep score much differently than men do!
How so?
Instead of scoring hugely for doing something awesome for her, women typically give the same ‘point level’ no matter how big or small the act.
This is a big deal because while you’re thinking this amazing cruise vacation you’re taking her on is worth a lot, it’s most likely no different than that simple romantic dinner you made for her the week before.
Big problems arise when we think what we’re doing is rewarding us huge points with our woman.
This couldn’t be further from the truth!
And this also ties in with my last post about appreciation.
Women appreciate the smallest things along with the big ones. But they also score them the same!
The problem happens when us men plan something HUGE for her. And we think that this will leave us in good standing for a few weeks.
Okay…
The problem is that this is how most of us men think. And it isn’t the way it works for women!
Even though your lover may really appreciate a big special day, women 99% of the time would rather have many small signs of appreciation every single day.
For example – you could leave her a love note one day. And the next day, send her a text message telling her how much you appreciate her. Then, the next day tell her how great she smells (women love it when you compliment their smell). And so on and so forth. Get creative. But nothing fancy. That’s the beauty
Why do you think you hear your women often say:
“Why don’t you leave me love letters or flowers or compliment my look anymore?”
This is a very common situation that men hear in relationships.
And it’s very easy to fix, especially if you care about your partner.
These little things that you do for your woman add up over time. And she will appreciate you more and more as you do them.
So, if you’ve separated from your partner, a simple letter here, a text message there, a call on the phone can do wonders for you.
Just be sure that you’re being very subtle as she may not be ready to talk to you just yet 
So, guys you will be much better off doing a bunch of small things spaced out.
I highly recommend Second Chance Romance because this will get you back into position to start scoring some good points with your love if you’ve separated.
The hardest part is getting BACK INTO THE GAME when she’s left you.
This guide gets my highest recommendation because I have read it, used it and still continue to refer back to it from time to time. It’s inexpensive and it works.
If it is important to you to revive your relationship, then it would be silly to not have this guide at your side.
Talk soon,
Raul C.
